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"He's saving his life and mine." What a great statement. I shivered when I read it. Your writing is causing me to rethink certain things in my childhood. Thank you

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I love this audacity! Thank you! My mother always said I was born with my mouth open. My other 5 siblings? She never said that of them. ❤️ But I never tried humor and was never alone ( as a child). I have much to learn. The ongoing work is important, as you note!

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Thank you, Etta. Here’s to that.

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"Was I protesting for the right to sit on a pinball machine in a queer bar and watch men watch me before I got on the stage in a corset, fishnets and latex shorts?" - Hell, yes! That was absolutely a major reason why I was out in the streets Back in the Day

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Where would we be without our audacious friends? A lot less happy and a lot less free. Such a beautiful and important observation, thank you!

PS: I always wanted to be the dancer with the black shag. She had the best moves.

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It’s a journey! Thank you.

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Alex with another banger from the heart

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Thanks Camille, you rock.

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A particularly lovely essay, so thank you.

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Thanks dear Benjamin!

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This is a great piece. Thank you.

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Thanks for reading!

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Audacious, yes! But you must drain the vermouth.

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I love vermouth though

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Thank you: For speaking and writing your truth, for having found the audacity inside, for not being silenced by anyone or anything. Thank you for being you. X

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For a writer, everything is research—conversations overheard at the gym, the way grocery stores arrange displays, the scent of the desert after a monsoon. Everything.

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